Why You Destroy Everything You Love

The closeness that terrifies you. The love you sabotage before it can leave. The way you become someone unrecognizable when relationships get real.

You’re accomplished, insightful, aware—yet you keep destroying what matters most. You’ve read the articles, tried the techniques. You understand attachment theory intellectually.

But understanding isn’t healing.

What you need isn’t more knowledge. It’s a carefully designed pathway back to your capacity for genuine connection. A journey that honors both your intelligence and your wounds.

This is that journey.